Loving the game so far, cant tell you how many times this game has gotten me off and made me "lose my sanity" a bit as well haha. Can't wait for more options and quests to do in future updates!
Also is there a way to keep the Were Bernard/logan in your home but like docile?
If you mean 'but not in jail', then no.
In your jail, however, if you keep working with them and are dominant, eventually they definitely become more docile, though (The scenes change once their dominance gets low enough, or presumably high enough but I haven't gone that direction).
Do note this has red text, however, and thus may have negative consequences in the future.