WE ARE USING 20011M I DONT USE MOD
Thanks for the answer...
Still don't know, you can answer these if you want, but I don't know if I can help.
Have you tried swapping around who's hosting (you host instead of them, etc)?
What's the version number of novetus for both of you?
Are you both using the same OS? If not, which ones?
Are you entering a different port than what they hosted.