I get needing enough dominance to top, but it's a little frustrating to have to switch to being a bottom for certain scenes instead of having a choice. Maybe just my personal preference carried over from other visual novels.
I know this has been asked before, but are there any sex scenes with Bernard that don't need a love potion? It doesn't seem to matter how high his love is. Unlike Hayden and the bartender, he won't do anything sexual without coercion.