lots to ponder! 99% of my gameplay in the tony hawk series was in free skate mode, where i could live out my personal skate fantasies. i beat the games, but the true pleasure was just interacting with the space. also, when i participated in a queer wrestling group, i always had the most fun with a total beginner, where i wouldn't try to win, i would just tumble around with them, much more like you would do with a puppy rather than a competition. yeah