Yes, but I don't know how to help her with said cabbages. Whenever i go to the patch there is no-one there and nothing happens
Before you get to the cabbages part, a couple other scenes have to be triggered. I think the first is catching her in the shower, which seems to be just a random chance of happening when passing through the upstairs hallway at night. After that I think there might be another scene in the day in the downstairs part of the house (though I don't remember exactly now).