looks like the app key was the wrong choice...
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No, I just picked the free AppLab's key; which in hindsight was a bad idea as support is going to improve on PCVR while I will be stuck on the Oculus platform; The only reason I took the AppLab was to get rid of having to go to "insecure apps" . I'm perfectly happy with the game, and its #1 on the Quest2 for me. Keep up the good work ;-)