In this game it's about dominate or be dominated. Its about "the fight for the top and the bottom". This is an aspect of the world many decide to ignore because it goes against their false values of "social equality". This game shows just that, there is no equality, even in love, because even there there must be one on top. Both figuratively and literally. Some couples decide to fight for that spot, and "spice up" their relationship, some take turns, and some settle on one being always on top and another always on bottom. This game is about the first option. It "spices up" thing by making sex into actual fights.
If you want the second or third option, then idk if this game is for you.