You can't compare this game to horror games where the MC can die simply because they're adult content, that's like apples and oranges. If you want that kind of game then go play MGQ or Violated Hero or something, the appeal of this game is that it's NOT 100% rape and death like most other femdom games out there you'll find.
Now you're starting to get it.
I will say that if you don't like that this game tries something new, a less fatal approach than existing games in this genre, nothing's stopping you from simply playing them instead. (Also for what it's worth, there does seem to be at least one existing character who is down for some snuff in a future update if you really wanna die so badly.)
I was playing the game last night and I had to admit that it is very erotic. I questioned why I was fighting so hard to avoid having great sex, but I guess my competitive instinct overrides my sexual one. Also, there is a lot of great sex before you get defeated. I enjoy your music selection as well.