I do not understand what "Nefhalf" means. Be more careful with the translator ;)
Think that characters like the merchant or the goblin make fun of you as a femboy and in most events this is referred to.
Having a non-male protagonist (not femboy) would force to change almost all the events, after all this is the central idea of the game, majalis wants to make a game with this theme and this is what he sells to you in his patreon. I would also like a purely feminine protagonist but I respect the decision of Majalis to make a game to his liking. although I would like him to remove the men from the game (only girls futas and femboy)
Think that a futa is by definition a female with a penis and there is no point in making fun of her for behaving as a girl. There are many things to see and I do not think it's worth it to waste time trying to make the author do something he does not want
If you see his website http://www.hentai-foundry.com/user/Majalis/profile and read his work you will understand the topics that they like to work
Personally, I would find it more interesting to start with a base character and modify his body while the game progresses (clothing, accessories,
hairstyle, tattoos, but zize, chest size), as well as alter his personality and tastes (body modification and moral degeneration < 3)