Hey man!
Once you unlock some new ships, especially those with lasers, it should become easier! Especially after unlocking the black ship. That's a relief to hear, by the way, after a night of tetris effecting about all the potential bugs 😂
Tab should show you a map, and the station will be highlighted with a little smiling post letter icon... Maybe the flag would have been more obvious. I didn't get the marker to show the right station in the HUD with a special icon unfortunately.