Totally agree with you, nothing more to add. It's really dumb that after learning about how this system works, I was kind of forced to consider just putting random ratings on games since my ratings actually push the median further up and kind of decrease my chances to get past the median if some of the games I rated don't return the favor. And some people will actually do it for sure, especially since you can't even be sure you got past the median!
And leafo, I get what the current solution was here to solve, I really do. What we're trying to tell you is that by some minor changes we can solve the initial issue as well as other problems that we've described.