Thanks for replying. I find that the direct controls for the monsters aren't very intuitive. Also, how am I supposed to raise lust to 100 without having the monster masturbate? I find that I can't issue the attack command when they have high lust because as soon as I attempt to raise it, they masturbate and remove it.
Edit: I'm trying to do as you said and make a Harpy attack a Laima. I click on my Harpy and open up the direct command menu. I click start fight and the menu closes. I assume now I have to chose who the Harpy will fight. I navigate my cursor to the Laima and try to click it, but it doesn't lock on, so it's difficult. I try again and even when I think I've clicked directly on the Laima they still don't fight. I checked the EN level and it is at 3, so it should be able to fight.