Can't reach the "change resolution option"
Do note the only way I've been able to run the game for quite some time is to launch it but running Java in the Terminal and taking the jar file inside the app itself.
search for the tales-of-androgyny-preferences file and modify the height and width entries to something smaller, like 800 width and 600 height.
Ah took a bit to find.
For anyone else trying to fix this: It was in the directory I was in when I ran Java in a hidden directory labeled ".prefs"