I don't read minds. Idk what you like/dislike. I don't even know you. And neither can you towards everyone else, so I find it unreasonable/irrational for a guest to become hostile towards the host just because they abhor milk and grilled cheese despite the hospitable gesture. Htf would the host even know to begin with if the guest did not express their lactose intolerance beforehand...? I'm innocent within the confines of your original post.
Establish here which of the "opinions that contradict each other in the replies to different comments." I am now much more interested in your discourse.