No female content in the base game, no. The addon system was created in the hopes that someone else would do it, since the main Orrias writer does not do female content.
The stats thing is odd. I'll have to look into that.
Edit: So, everything is working as intended, but it IS a little confusing in its current state.
Your combat stats are a number between 1 and 100, but they're listed on the character screen with a word, and there is only three tiers of word it can use (Weak, average, strong... etc)... So it does take awhile before it rolls over to the next word.
We'll look into either adding more tiers to make it more noticable, or just display the number itself, in the following release.
Edit2: Looks like we're going to do the numerical values. Sorry for the confusion D: