Bruh it seems like you are pretty angry yourself. Seriously did the pronouns hurt you somewhere? By the way what do you even mean by shitting on player's choice? The appearances can always be updated and eventually we might offer gender options, so people can live out their fantasy of playing as a male or whatever. However, starting off it simply offers the most potential of lewd scenarios to use a somewhat more androgynous design for the protagonist/player character. Beside all that just live your life brother, but why bother commenting if you only complain about the weirdest stuff, instead of providing some real feedback?