Same! I forgot that in my last comment. I have to get just right up to touching them, to the point that it doesn't even really look like I'm touching them and then just lightly brush across a body part. Anything closer than that and you're "hurting" them. Any wrong mouse move, or you scroll your wheel too much and your hand is suddenly up their armpit or something. lol. Personally, I'd recommend dropping their pain gain in the cheats menu. I dropped it to the lowest just to avoid the system altogether for now. They'll still moan and complain that it hurts, but you won't cause them to leave because of it.