"Itch and Patreon are being assholes to NSFW-dev."
There's a kind of macabre comedy in how often I heard that now
Patreon cutting funding over not liking something about the game the devs make? I've read it roughly 6 or 7 times from non-incest devs and from literally all that had incest (who nearly all were able to regain it by using the "landlord and roommate" or "childhood friend" replacements, so this one is weirdly harsh)
Itch causing trouble? only 4 or 5 times, always with support being very slow. I'm pretty sure itch is like YouTube prioritizing "the big ones" in their reaction speed which usually means horror goes quicker than nsfw
That being said there aren't that many i follow enough to know if they had that trouble as well. Especially with Furry-nsfw (which is definitely a noteworthy amount) I'm completely out of the loop
I actually follow very few projects as well, just like you. Didn't hear anything from pretty much any of them, like Killer7 with My New Family since he removed all incest from his game a long time ago. Previously he coded a cheat code to activate incest (change roomate to brother/sister and so on), but nowdays people just use an unofficial patch with no ties to Killer himself. Itch probably went full crackdown on LiL because it is not only is a psychological horror game but it's also a big name on it's own, so fuckers decided to use it as an example (but won't actually do it to any other horror game with much worse content, regardless of porn and all).
Honestly, the way things have been going for much bigger games, this weird crackdown was to be expected. Not because it is right, but because it makes the sites look politically correct, not that they actually are most of the time.