1) No it's not true, the SDK is still around: https://www.gamesindustry.biz/articles/2020-01-28-when-do-deceptive-playable-ads...
They were also sued for breaking the COPPA law: https://www.techdirt.com/2018/05/16/ad-software-dev-doesnt-like-being-called-out...
2) Microsoft has details on it and it is not anything you just said.
3) Yes they only care about profits, the CEO of unity was once CEO EA guy who wanted to microtransaction everytime you reload a gun. They do not care about game or the engine.