This is just a suggestion, but I think that when both players die at the same time with only one sword spawn remaining, the game should give the sword to the player who has died less. If they have died an equal number of times, then I think neither of them should get a sword. This isn't perfect, but I think it is fair. Either way, I am super excited for Eggnogg Rumble and hope it comes out soon!
P.S. I've been playing this game for a while, and several times I have seen some interactions that make me think that it is possible for both players to use each other and gain infinite height. I have yet to test this, but even if it exists, it's not game breaking by any means and doesn't really effect gameplay, I just thought you might want to know about it.