Some of the maps do look very similar, and the initial refugee camp is almost identical, except that the map transfer on the top left is a way in from the forest and the toll is on a bridge leading into the refugee camp.
Claire's Quest is Orcs and Goblins, and everyone is trying to get to the coast to take boats to the island countries nearby.
The guards at the camp are the slavers and you have to sneak into the town to avoid the slave route, which has an escape or sold off options to continue the story. The town has either an above board option to ship out, or one that results in a different potential slave start.
Claire is the only daughter of the minor noble family in the starting area. And yeah, if I remember correctly, her dad gets killed, defending the king I think, and mom gets hauled off to be a breeder.
I'd recommend you check it out, but it's a paid game and I wouldn't want you to be influenced by it, as you are going in a little bit different direction. I'll say that it starts to really be it's own game in the starting town. Leading up to that, you both have very similar imaginations. The dystopian medieval vibe is strong with you both.