I'll admit I don't have the whole story but it sounds like one of you is misrepresenting the situation, if I base it off of the last thing strange girl said, it paints the picture that you're trying to strongarm them to get acquired, and before that negotiation was completed you issued this takedown to apply pressure to the decision.
"Die" is a strong term but and maybe "holier than thou" is wrong to say, but the concern is that if there is an active negotiation this is a pretty aggressive tactic to pull, if there isn't then it would be nice to understand that better.
It just feels strange to hear "we want to work with y'all" while you're also trying to cut them in the middle of that discussion