You have most of the requirements then, but you're probably just slightly short on friendship because you're asking Adam to take you to Q&A (which reduces your friendship with him).
Try coming out to Jake earlier in the game, either by running into him in the hallway on a Q&A attempt, or IMing him at just the right time.
If you're still having trouble, send me an email. :) bobcgames (at) gmail.com