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Yeah, having options for condom usage, facial hair, body hair, and whether you top or bottom is really freeing for the player, but not every game doesn't have to do that. Coming Out On Top is a game a lot of gay men have played, so of course, many players set their expectations based on that game.  Not everyone has the time or money to add all that, especially adding top and bottom scenes for everyone you can have sex with, as that's double both the CGs and the writing. And some people want to stick with their creative visions and not just have the player customize aspects to the characters they see as important to their character. I have more to say about this in a later devlog, but some people don't want to make one of the characters they see as a top bottom just because their audience would think it's hot, to say nothing about adding options to make a hairy character clean-shaven, or a person who values cleanliness to not wear a condom. If someone is willing to add in all those options, then good for them, but not everyone should do that. If people think those options should be in all erotic gay games, they really need to step down from their pedestal. It's probably better to ignore those people. There are also some creators who want their game to be seen as having a lot of options even when it only has a few. So they try to be coy about it when really they would have an easier time if they were honest about what their game is.