Nothing rude about what I said. You calling me a prick and accusing the other guy of lying is quite rude though. So, take your own advice and stop being rude.
HH has not been generous with hints about which choices lead to which outcome. People have been complaining about the easily lost routes and scenes for ages. Why do you think that would suddenly change when they introduce NTR? Better don't count on friendly warnings or marked choices that would make it an option rather than an unexpected outcome. HH doesn't roll that way.