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thank you!!!! honestly keeping a journal (or planner!) can look very differently for people and i always want to suggest like figuring out what can work for u! i can't remember how much i wrote a out this noe as i edited this a bunch haha but like i myself started with a thin notebook where i just kept a weekly to-do list! and then after like 3? 4? months i got a proper bullet journal and continued basically the same with a weekly to-do list but decorating it cuter with stickers and stuff! now i'm on my 3rd bullet journal and honestly the basic idea stayed the same! tho now i have a habit tracker (more like task tracker) with a space for to-do tasks but mainly i began to write what "accomplishments" i've done each day which are like what meal I made haha or video game played etc..

this year i also added a planner where at the end of the day (or through out the day) i write down like a short sentence about something happening in the day— what i did in a video game, who i sent a letter to (currently its international correspondence writing month so im trying to send a letter every weekday (im a lazy butt taking the weekend off haha), and things like that! i dont know if you have heard of hobonichi techo but thats the daily a6 planner i have! something that can be fun if you want to challenge yourself could be a 3 or 5 year journal! the kind where you write each day and for 3 or 5 years and can see what u wrote the previous years as everything is on the same age for th3 same days.. it doesnt fit into my journal system right now but its something im ๐Ÿ‘€ about..

oh the other thing is i made a vent journal where i only sometimes use it when i really need to get some emotions out. it can go weeks before i use it! and here im usually glad when i dont need it haha

sorry tgis is so long,, ๐Ÿ˜… basically journals can be used very differently! if you cant do daily, weekly is good! and its all a challenge.. i've def had times where its been hard.. just yesterday i was so sleepy i nearly forgot to do the daily page in my planner (which also no one says u have to fill every page! or do more than put a sticker on it.. im just sort of trying to challenge myself!)

also i like to make habit/task trackers be a week or like challenge myself weekly instead of monthly because its easy to just fail but when ur tracking weekly, each week is a fresh start where u can try again! so if u fail one week, thats a lot less than a month haha its like the new year resolutions where u try a few days, u then fail and give up.. here each week is a "new year" and i can try again..

,,,,,,,im sorry im just very into journaling haha sometimes feels like the only thing keeping me going.. same with stationary and crafts (the stamped onion on the back of the zine pdf is a stamp i craved myself!! same with that sparkle bullet point) and its been so freeing to have a place where i put down things i need to remember so i dont have to keep them all in my brain.. and its a good feeling.. it grounds me... so i wish other people would also figure out what feels good for them!

so yeah,,, dont give up! just figure out what works for u!!! for myself, unless i decorate my journal with stivkers i wouldnt be able to actually use it.. because having it look cute motivates me...

uh if u are curious what my journal looks like, my journal account is https://www.instagram.com/onionboi_journal/ ๐Ÿ˜…

even if u start by just writing a sentence or 2 each day and then moving on to having longer writing entries some days, thatd be real good! its all about enjoyment, at least for me, you gotta enjoy it! otherwise.. its like whats the point?? (unless its a vent journal.. obviously the point is to vent haha)

so um yeah,,,, haha i hope i didnt scare you off, journaling is wonderful!! however it looks and works for an individual ๐Ÿ˜Š

So much of this is honestly life-changing? Like, I've been told before that I don't have to fill every day, but I find myself skipping too many days in the row and then I feel guilty or whatever... but when you said just now "no one said you have to[...]do more than put a sticker on it" I was like "...you can do that?????" You can just put a sticker? like of course it's my journal no one tells me what to do but is that really ALLOWED? I love that. I mean I love stickers but also I sincerely needed someone to just pick me up and shake me and say A JOURNAL ENTRY IS WHATEVER YOU SAY IT IS. Also all your advice on different ways to use a journal is just really well-informed and helped me to sort of contextualize the way I have tried using journals in the past and what I really want to get out of them.

You did not scare me off and it was all such a sincerely good and individualized pitch for journals! Thank you for taking the time to write all this out! (also I peeked at your journal insta and it's so beautiful ;_;) I am gonna give it a try and grow some plants while I do it!

๐Ÿ˜ญ thank you!!! im so glad to help!!!

and yesss!!!! YESSS!!! i live to just try to open people's preconcieved notions for journaling/planners! im still not perfect myself and get caught up in stuff but i am really thankful that i started my own way of journaling without having any real reference of journal spreads other people do— i only began getting inspiration from other people's journaling posts/videos about a year into journaling when i had a pretty solid spread template i was using. of course i still experiment and its been changing and evolving but thats whats great about it! because you get to modify to make it work for you— sometimes im a little sad when i see a spread i really like that someone made because I realize i cant use it haha but the most important for me is the ability to actually use a spread so yeah

(also about just putting a sticker, tbf so far i still have been writing sentences but it can really help to have stickers that can correspond to something— like i got a sticker sheet of some cute cats doing chores like dishes and laundry and its nice to put down a laundry sticker on a day i did laundry :P ....i have been thinking about carving a stamp or two to symbolize like a bad day or some other specific thing just for when i dont have a sticker for it mm)

i think something that helped me was seeing some videos (mainly one from jetpens) about using old planners that are out of date— much of it is like a sketchbook so drawing your meals, or doing pen swatches, or doing washi tape swatches, etc and that sort of opened my eyes more on that you really dont have to use things convensionally.. i was reading hobonichi techo articles and some people just use their dated hobonichi planners as basically notebooks not caring about the dates! seems bonkers to me but also im almost jealous haha i wish i could do that xD

also thank you!!! ๐Ÿฅบ i get a lot of satisfaction out of making my journal spreads and trying to make them look nice that im always glad when others like them too! (,,,to tell the truth, i still dont have my next week's spread done so im going to have to do it tomorrow... i try to do it on thursday or friday but yeah sometimes im very tired.. so as you can see even im still struggling with journaling some days, but i kno i will enjoy making the spread once i do sit down and finally do it ๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ’•)

anyway ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช cheering you on!!!! hell yeah, go have fun doing some journaling, whatever that will look for you!!! ๐Ÿฅฐ