As someone who isn't feminine enough to do it irl, I'm loving the multiple paths and options in this game, and looking forward to more updates (id join the Pat, but I'm broke thanks to medical issues.) However, I have to ask how you're supposed to use the dildo? i buy it but the option never comes up. Also, just in case you didn't know, on the final apartment upgrade, if you go straight to the bathroom, it sends you to your parents' house.
I'm really glad that you enjoy the game! And definitely do not feel sorry or anything for not joining the Patreon, you should always put your own needs first!
As far as using the dildo, thank you, there is actually a bug as it turns out! I went to look at it, since you are supposed to be able to use it in the bedroom and apartment but I accidentally tied it to the wrong thing, so I will get that fixed.
I'm not sure about the bathroom thing, but I will take a look at it, thank you for letting me know!