I'm really glad that you enjoy the game! And definitely do not feel sorry or anything for not joining the Patreon, you should always put your own needs first!
As far as using the dildo, thank you, there is actually a bug as it turns out! I went to look at it, since you are supposed to be able to use it in the bedroom and apartment but I accidentally tied it to the wrong thing, so I will get that fixed.
I'm not sure about the bathroom thing, but I will take a look at it, thank you for letting me know!