Thanks for the tips.
I made a new character and kept the old one around using it as a trial and error for the new one. I have so many problems with that one that I learned to solve late in game and here reading the forum. I noticed about the blow jobs to get hunger down, but it's only by 1. The altar is a almost literal godsend for training and level grinding. Each time I visit the cottage the witch isn't there. Maybe it's only at night. I ate the spider but I think it had bad effects.
The first character I made was a paladin, then I went with a canon Hiro as a enchanter and made him balanced. I'm gonna try to shoot thru the game as pure as possible. Only making sweet love to a handful of characters.