for some reason i cant meet Oscar at the healers clinic. please advise
Are you sleeping before getting Boris' gameover? It should go you go out and play with him, talk to him about it then get a gameover while out with him, then he'll treat you like his.
As for Nel, the coder put out a Nel fix not too long ago, so hopefully that fixes it.
Also, check the latest update post for more help as they get put into the gdoc.