I'd like to think we both have a point, as I respect artisans of their respective fields and like to think that in each and everyone who has attained a certain level of quality steps into the bucket that is perfectionism every once in a while and invests too much time and needs to be pulled back.
So, let me give you this tiny bit of advise: If you catch yourself tinkering away at one particular, small matter, give it a rest and come back later, maybe have some else have a look and give feedback.
And most importantly: Looking forward to 0.17
Oh and since you mentioned repeatable scenes here, I would nominate a rework of the "alarms" and the bedwarmer options. I always found it a bit awkward when having say Kali warm my bed and have the twins come in as alarm. I think it would be more rounded to have the girl(s) take on the wake-up duties automatically in their own unique way when they get to sleep with you. Just for consideration.