Yes I am aware that we can choose. And I can list a few parts where at least I felt like it was r*pe.
Male bandit when you submit you have a resist choice (which is just weird for me). When Othra asks you to look for a few acolytes, I felt uneasy especially with the swamp one. Rousk battle when he grabs you and you can't free yourself immediately. I don't remember going that far in the red path and it was a long time ago but I THINK the situation with Logan and bandits (I could be wrong), and corrupting the lizard tribe also made me uneasy (I don't remember much). The rat king using Tao doesn't look very good to me, and Scrap also telling about when he was abused by a ratkin before finding a rock. The omega werewolf in the Wolf’s den. And then Booner.
I think that's it. I know most of those things are avoidable because there's choice and lucky in a battle. But I am not saying that it's a bad game, it is a great game. I think I just wanted to let it out of my system.