I completely agree he should have just realized it wasnt for him and moved on.
However you are really strawmanning them here.
From what I read they don't seem to be indicating their own "alpha-nesa". Games and stories, they arent about matching your reality, they are about joining into a new one (which can be similar to yours but not neccessary). You can want to escape into a reality of being "alpha" without being anything like that in real life.
Like, fuck that guy for feeling the need to shit on someone's story because it didn't meet their personal preferences - but i don't like bad faith arguements even in response to someone shitty