I feel this. Anytime I have an option for anatomy in smutty stuff I have to weigh weather being missgendered or having the wrong parts will take me out of it.
i compltely agree, when he said "good girl" i was like tf eww uncomfortable but the "boy" option associated with the penis didn't fully feel right either
i had hoped it would be gender neutral since the game has different pronoun options and used non specific terms like significant other in it
i hope this can be changed hopefully :3