Hello there.
The second option from the top in the plugin parameters for the recipelist plugin should be the 'Bind to Main Menu' parameter. If you set it to false, it won't show up in the menu at all. Or... it shouldn't, anyway. There isn't a way to adjust where in the menu list it binds, without using another plugin which changes the main menu commands. There are instructions for how to bind it to the main menu using the YEP_MainMenuCore and the VisuStella Main Menu Core plugins in the help documentation.
If you're a little more JS savvy, the function starting at line 630 is where it draws the menu command. You can roughly move it around the menu command list by loading it before or after different functions that load the menu commands. It loads after addOriginalCommands(), so there will be plugins that load commands before it, or after it, if they alias different functions.
~Ramza