The human character constantly makes homophobic and misogynistic remarks regardless of which path you choose. This is too much of a turn-off (and that's putting it lightly) for us to enjoy the good parts of this game.
Homophobic? Misogynistic? I believe we have vastly different definitions of those words. The only thing that comes to mind is the MCs attitude of calling Gomamon a girl and having a more "no homo" attitude, but if that is what you are referring to, then I must strongly disagree.
It is a harmless joke as well as a part of his character. A character that grows as he comes to accept his feelings for Gomamon. Also...there are literally no women in this game, aside from a tiny snippet in an Ending. I have trouble seeing how any misogyny could be in there. You probably mean some chats where Gomamon talked about Mimi and co., but that was harmless chit chatting.
Either way, this game doesn't seem to work out for you and that is fine. My writing style might not be for everyone. I just find it peculiar that you call a gay game homophobic. Those terms shouldn't be thrown about willy nilly. It makes them meaningless which can cause actual homophobic comments to be handwaved away. And I got some myself from people that were offended that Gomamon was male, hence that this is a gay game.