I'm afraid right now there's no way to sleep with Hayden as a female. That scene is only for a submissive male. My friend is writing everything involving Hayden and I know he plans to implement a scene for submissive female too.
There's nothing to do with Logan for anyone. My main focus if it comes to romance was put on Bernard for now. But I have plans for Logan and I think romancing him would be easier for a female than for a male. He's consider as a straight after all.