is it hard to understand that the game about 3 inch cock MC and fifty taller futas with 6+ inch cock does not aim for audience that wants to be topping anybody? is it hard to understand that this game does not really punish you for being defeated and has more content after you get caught than if you beat someone?
I guess, you was already told that, but you don't want to get it, so it's your problem now
And yeah, there are tons of games that give you sex scenes if you're defeated in some basic mini-game. The reward for winning in them is the fact you can progress and see more characters. When you lose, you get a sex scene as a consolation prize. ToA is the game that lets you top every character at least once, even if other options are more prevalent. The only ones you can't fuck some way are: Dark Knight, Wasp, Ogre, Tentacle Witch. So, 90% of the characters can be topped somehow.