I found while playing on how to get the jewelry. In Deepwoods dungeon you want to go south across the ice a bit and and go east to orc village. Go north then east to the last curtain and peek in. Talking will happen and now you can buy all the jewelry there. I'm still looking on where to buy/get lipstick, other toys etc.. I have two plugs plus the sleeve for your manhood.
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Yeah there are a few jewelry options you can buy from the Orc's shop. I've considered adding some makeup options, but at the moment there isn't much, outside of an event in the second dungeon to pair your nails (just go left and up until you reach a red and black chair for that.) I believe you have all of the sex toys currently in the game as well.