They said it applies specifically to the harem tag. so I assumed it meant that you can avoid side characters in the sense they don't have to be in the harem. Could have misinterpreted it though.
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I had no idea how to parse that. Generally the further back I read in the thread the less I understood. My question was raised several times and for some reason a concise yes or no was never given, there's always an addendum or something that reads contradictory. I can't tell if it's just a language thing or the developer being elusive.