Thanks for playing, and for the feedback!
(minor spoilers)
That dialog only appears if you have collected at least 2 clues that could potentially point to the planet you are on, and then only after you explore a portion of the planet. (there are a handful of hidden explore points that you have to enter in order for it to consider explored, and they reset when you leave). Long term i'd love to make it more clear that you have to explore, and meet the clues, in order for it to be considered a valid option.
But regardless, this kind of feedback is super super helpful for identifying what needs to be better communicated. <3