Firstly, congrats on learning and overcoming obstacles o/ I think most new devs discover that whole "being overly ambitious" issue; people don't realize until they are doing it, but a simple choice doesn't grow additively, it grows exponentially and can get out of control real fast the more elements you add.
This is me jumping the gun a bit, but is your game going to have options for cuckolding? I personally would like to see some femdom/light humiliation, but I also know that's not in a lot of people's wheelhouse. That said, I thought it might not hurt to ask.
good luck with your game regardless, if you can, try discussing other devs some tips and tricks, many are more than willing to share some neat info.