I don't like BDSM at all, nor do I like femdom (nor am I really excited about maledom)
Okay, if you're into the kinder, more loving stuff, this build goes toward that more.
Any spot where there is rougher content, players usually have the choice to pick warmer options.
You can play a sadist or a kind man, and that freedom of choice is probably going to be maintained as development progresses.