As I mentioned in an earlier post, the 'Romancing your Best Friend' route ISN'T a quick thing. Also, how you first become aware of the Friday night Party secret is different depending on if you are playing a guy or a girl. Hypothetically, you might not get the clue at all if you are playing a Girl character who is sexually abstinent (and that is the last I am going to say on the subject). If you are playing a guy, you will probably be due for the initial clue here in the next party or so, pay attention to your interactions with your hosts.