After like 3 or 4 hours of trying to get the saves to work I finally got them to work , I don't know exactly what the problem was but maybe I did a work around, because amazons file manager seems very strict with the 'data' on the fire 11 max tablet even if you allow all permissions, the data folder disappears whenever you try to move or copy things into it. The only way I can put files in 'data' is by dragging files into it and that did not work.
Since that file manager didn't work I realized that I can download another file manager (wish I realized it sooner 😖), once I installed the new file manager I launched the game so it can create its folders, then I closed the game and copied my saves from within the new file manager to the game's saves file, relaunched after life harem and it worked! Good thing too because I don't want to start all over having to tap the screen repeatedly to skip all text to get to where I'm suppose to be lol
thanks aph for wanting to try to attempt to help me!