I don't hate people only because of the passport they got when they were born. Everyone makes their choice: to be a Human, or to support the vile barbarian fantasies of the kremlin dictator. Too many good people have died, unfortunately. It'll take many years for it to heal. But at the end of the day common sense will prevail. And this war will be over.
If you have spare money, donate it not to us but to Ukrainian army and the victims of the invasion - they really need it more than us. I don't know about the payment methods - I have a friend stuck in ru, and nothing we can do.