This update was particularly glitchy, here are tips until it gets fixed for those who wish to see all the scenes:
-Elf, Bard and Museum are mutually inclusive
-Tavern is only mutually inclusive with Museum I think, anything else will lock you out of it
-You need to speak to the bard right after the cemetery stuff I think to unlock the beach scene. After that, go through the elf's quest line (by speaking to her at the cemetery), you NEED to get on the bed with her or the day will not progress to evening. After this, do NOT go back home and get changed, it will lock you out of the abbey area for some reason, go straight to the abbey instead
There really should be a way to unlock the gallery in case people miss stuff due to the bugs, I use all 20 of the save slots and still managed to lock me out of a lot of stuff, having to load back much older saves lol
Also still no BJ scene sadly... one can dream