What level are you and what enemy are you attempting to "seduce"
like lvl 2 and the wolf i got a job to do i
Werewolf or animal wolf? Animal wolf won't work. Make sure the enemy has a heart next to their HP bar (so werebeasts, wildlings, trollkin). Also, I believe your first point of grit is at lvl 3 iirc, so lvl 2 will always result in death
