(From a male perspective) Why not make a game where you play as a MAN who bangs the female instead of playing as a female and GETTING banged by a man when you "lose"?
I have a wang, I'd like to use it in a game simulation. Getting banged by a guy has zero appeal to me.
Pretty please, consider my suggestion, there are already TONS of games where you play as a female and get banged by a dude when losing, make something different.