I'm not sure if I understand correctly. I will try to answer as best as possible.
I was wrong. The game doesn't tell you. But you can see the affection. Use "в файл" option in main menu. You need to check the file using a text editor. Find your number, which is called "slot" (for example: ячейка 7 -> "slot": 7, ячейка 12 -> "slot": 12, etc.). Then find "sympathy" in that part. You can use the search option to make things easier
If you don't want to do this, I recommend that you take your time. When I play, I pet her a lot. Then events are possible. Let me know if this helped